Weerbaarheid
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jacqueline
- Berichten: 869
- Lid geworden op: 25 mar 2012, 20:45
- Gender: Trans MtF
Re: Weerbaarheid
leuk....maar als je tegenstander niet meer opstaat zit jij in de bajes....lijkt me ook geen leuk leven
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Fay
- Berichten: 2484
- Lid geworden op: 03 nov 2012, 14:01
- Gender: Trans MtF
- Locatie: Eindhoven
Re: Weerbaarheid
This could help, good point:
Jeff Foster:
Is it possible to hear criticism, even insult, and find deep acceptance in any internal response that emerges in the moment - grounded in the unshakeable knowing that what you really are doesn't need defending? And then, being radically open, is it possible to find a nugget of truth in what they are saying, even if it results in momentary humiliation, and destruction of the image of the one you thought you were?
This doesn't mean you become passive and weak. Quite the opposite. You stop identifying as 'the victim' or 'the hurt one', and stop seeing the other as 'the enemy', and you remain open and vast, the infinite capacity for all life, for all thought and sensation and feeling. And here, in the midst of conflict, you discover the place where conflict ends, and wake up to a love and understanding beyond reason.
Yes, every human relationship is a constant invitation to let go. Your mother, your father, your friends, your lovers, your co-workers, everyone you meet - here are your final gurus, your ultimate teachers. Listen to them.
Jeff Foster:
Is it possible to hear criticism, even insult, and find deep acceptance in any internal response that emerges in the moment - grounded in the unshakeable knowing that what you really are doesn't need defending? And then, being radically open, is it possible to find a nugget of truth in what they are saying, even if it results in momentary humiliation, and destruction of the image of the one you thought you were?
This doesn't mean you become passive and weak. Quite the opposite. You stop identifying as 'the victim' or 'the hurt one', and stop seeing the other as 'the enemy', and you remain open and vast, the infinite capacity for all life, for all thought and sensation and feeling. And here, in the midst of conflict, you discover the place where conflict ends, and wake up to a love and understanding beyond reason.
Yes, every human relationship is a constant invitation to let go. Your mother, your father, your friends, your lovers, your co-workers, everyone you meet - here are your final gurus, your ultimate teachers. Listen to them.